Everyone can really play as it wants, just not from day one.And that is normal.You want a big base, fine , by day 100 for sure you can have one.On A16, by day 100, you had like nothing left to do,Now, for example, i am using iron arows, cause i dont have steel yet.On a16 i used to jump directly from stone to steel.I don't think it's intentionally this way to punish a certain playstyle. It's just simply not balanced very well AT ALL in this current state. The end-game is even worse as far as enjoyment for me - you are just sooo OP now when you start maxing out perks - it's not even funny. You're gonna have to really crank the difficulty or possibly even mod the zombie hand damage cause you can just stand there and let a zombie beat on you long enough to microwave a burrito before you even die with your armor and perks maxed.
Your situation is somewhat easy to combat - you could just go loot around for some cars and you'll find Iron tools relatively quickly. The loot is another unbalanced part of the game right now and you'll find virtually all the tools you need. Then just go out into the forest and within a few mins of running around you'll find a forge house. You can make forged iron to repair the tools and there you go..
Today, while looting a random horde apeared, and found me inside the POI i was upstairs.On A16, once you cleared the POI, you were safe. Now, when entering a POI, i have to think if i can do it or is to much for my lvl, on A16 i used to loot the skyscrapers with stone arrows and wooden club.Now, when i loot a can of food, i am happy, on A16 i just used to scrap them cause i had tons of food at home.
The game, its just much better now, yes it needs some balancing, yes some gates needs to be reduced or uped, but the game is much better.Just don't expect everything from day one as it used to be.