That's perfectly fine. If you don't enjoy nerdpoling, don't do it, and everyone remains happy.

I'm a big advocate for everyone playing the way they want to play without judgment.
You're fine personally, but my personal gripe is someone who complains about x optional mechanic in the game that they choose not to engage in, but then they whine it's in the game still and want it to be removed, to the detriment of others. I saw a subreddit post ages ago where an individual complained that vehicles are "too OP" and make travel trivial, and they wanted them taken out of the game. That's my issue personally. /shrug