The middle ground is making an effort. Listening to people who are, or MIGHT BE hurt, directly or indirectly, by something, and re-evaluating and changing behavior based on that. Does PC culture affect people in ways they wish it didn't? sure. But look at those jokes about sex, ethnicity, ailments...how many of them perpetrate negative or unhealthy views about those things? or contribute to the intolerance of other practices. How many people in healthy Polyamorous relationships are hurt by the sterotypes that jokes about "cheating significant others" perpetrate? How many sex jokes praise are built around the assumption that men who sleep with everyone they can are to be admired, but women who do the same are to be shunned? How many people are hurt by ethnic jokes reinforcing some ridiculous stereotype that doesn't CAUSE, but CONTRIBUTES to how a population is viewed?