I am 51 myself and will be 52 in November so I can see the age difference an important factor, especially with certain games. I would say most of the clowns I played with could be kids that get bullied in school and then get take it out in game by killing their own teammates and that type of thing....That's why I'm one of the admins on our server. Our server has similar specs (I-7 3.6, 24GB RAM, and a Samsung EVO SSD). Interestingly enough, almost everyone that wanders onto my server tends to be a bit older in the general demographic (40-65 yrs. old). I suspect it might be partially due to the type of setup required to play this game smoothly. Anyone that steps out of line in regard to respect of others within the game or is caught cheating is immediately banned. Luckily, I can recall having to kick maybe five players in total including a couple of hackers. Very few that have joined were disrespectful of others. It's pretty easy within the game to determine their steam ID and then just add them to the ban list. We have clans that join. I'll see groups come on from a specific area of the world at different times. I have the world backed up hourly so I can roll back any chunk to fix any vandalism. You are welcome to test in my current game server to see the difference in frame rates on hosting on a separate system - Geek Gaming 17.4 is the name of the server.
Ah a Stonekeep veteran. I don't really like to go out at night because of the poor headlights on the vehicles and I just prefer to only do what I absolutely have to such as mining or car salvaging but I do not do any quests at night or much looting inside of any buildings. I guess you could say I am a bit wimpy but I would rather tend to the forges and do my crafting or repairs at night and then about 6:00 when the light is out I go out and do quests and scavenge buildings and anything else I need to do.Before i started playing 7dtd i have seen a few videos from people playing, so i had a general sense of what to come. Still, i mostly came out at night, cautiously at first, but decisively after i got accustomed with the game. It ia doable, it is tense, it is loads of fun.
Also never played with others, perhaps some day it will change.
I spent hours trying to figure out what to do and where I was playing I did not have access to the internet so I could not checkout a walkthrough.Tough luck, ending of the game as i remember. I think you had to have the big saturn oeb which granted strength. There were a lot of hidden passages there. Sometimes i simply walked against walls to see which were illusory. The shadow palace is the last area where you collect last irbs and go to fight, instakill or imprison Shadow King.
I often get surprised by Zs, but as long as i'm paranoid enough and look around often, it's rare.