A17 is the best version of the game, by far. The people that complain the most want the game to either be super easy, or they want a pretty variant of minecraft. Or they can't handle change. Or they can't grasp the concepts of "alpha", early access, and/or "in development." As a zombie survival game, A17 is excellent.
But, the #1 factor most people seem to not grasp is...
7DTD is an "alpha" - the game is in development.
On top of that, A17 is an experimental branch of an alpha.
So anybody who is thin skinned, doesn't like restarting, doesn't like change, isn't willing to allow the devs the freedom to make THEIR game, and so on, should not play early access games, should not play beta/alpha versions of games, and sure as hell should not play experimental branches of alpha games that are in very heavy flux.
Either stick with A16 until A17 is official, or wait for the game to be released. If you're incapable of playing without complaining about EVERYTHING and being perpetually unhappy and resistant to every change, then wait for release and make your purchase based on the final product.
Hopping into an early access game, or worse, and experimental branch, and then saying idiotic things like "I don't know if this game is for me" is ludicrous.
Allow the devs to make their game, and if you don't like it in the end, don't buy it. If you buy into early access that's a choice, and a risk - the risk being that you may not like how the game turns out - but that's on you for gambling, not on the devs for making their game their way and you not liking it.
Judging by the traffic here and the number of servers being played, a great deal of people like/love this game. The vast majority of people who like the game do not come here to post. Most people that post are in the extreme minority of complainers or people who fail to understand they're in early access/development and who cling to the old, want things their way, or who should take their amazing ideas and coding abilities off towards making their own games since they're clearly better devs and designers than the pimps.