I know for me that mods are confusing. My experience on computers has been writing college papers, playing match three games to take a break from trying to figure out the stupid sadistic, I mean statistic class assignments.
My first real game was Sims 3 and I was on a forum (not EA official forum) a lot there, just as I am here. It was constantly stated that mods would cause nothing but problems, it wasn't seen as acceptable. Custom content for clothes, sims characters and modding to change this or that was always touted as you don't do that, not if you know what is good for you.
Add in that when there was a patch you had to remove the mod(s), uninstall the game and whatever you had bought and added, then reinstall it and when the mod was updated add it back in.
Seemed too much work and I didn't understand any of it.
Here, I am learning more about what mods are, how they affect the game and I will admit that I am still leery of them. At age 62, computer are still a mystery to me and I just don't feel comfortable in adding mods, and definitely don't feel confident that I can do the modding. That is given to my son to do for me.
But, I no longer see them as a threat to my computer, as the evil creation that will infect my computer with some nasty virus that will destroy it. I don't play on a server so that isn't a problem for me, but if I were to play on one, I wouldn't mind that it was modded, as long as the people running the server know what they are doing and can help me if I have problems.
Right now, I am waiting to see what is going to happen with a16.4, is it going to be fixed of all the bugs and go stable, or will we have to just wait until a17 is ready for release? I'm back to not being allowed to play until I learn how to use the Steam controller as the way I play on my keyboard has put my shoulder in a bind and is affecting how I use it.
Vanilla was fun and a great learning experience, but I like the difference of Random Gen, and in watching some modded games such as War of the Walkers, it looks like loads of fun and I later on I do plan to give it a try, it has 72 slots in the backpack

. Not starvation, no, spiders, so no starvation.
I don't know what can and will help to change attitudes, confusion and suspicion of mods, of the changing of a game so that things are added or taken out is not a horrible thing and you shouldn't play on a modded game.