You don't have to spawn at backpack. It is a choice. You can still spawn at your bed. If you don't want to see the option at all or you're trying to prevent other players from being able to use that option for some reason, you'd have to mod it. You'd also have to mod the danger meter. No news yet on how to do either but I'd expect the "no danger meter" mod will appear within a day or two as that will be a big one people want to get rid of as quickly as possible.